In a world so divided by politics, culture and personal beliefs, finding common ground might seem like an idealistic goal.
But it is needed more now than ever.
Common ground is one of the most practical and powerful tools for fostering understanding and collaboration.
Common ground doesn’t mean sacrificing values or compromising integrity; it means recognizing our shared humanity and building bridges where walls might otherwise stand.
In an American culture where political prowess is defined by how well your party can own the other— I implore upon our better angels to rise above the hateful rhetoric.
At its core, finding common ground is about empathy.
When we actively listen to others, we often discover shared concerns, hopes and fears.
The key is to “actively listen.” This precludes talking.
“We have two ears and one mouth so we can listen twice as much as we speak,” the stoic philosopher Epictetus wrote, 2,000 years ago.
And it was American playwright Eugene O’Neill that once said, “God gave us mouths that close and ears that don’t...that should tell us something.”
The Bible has plenty to say about listening.
James 1:19 says, “My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.”
Proverbs alone has many verses on the matter:
Proverbs 18:13 says, “To answer before listening— that is folly and shame.”
Proverbs 18:2, “Fools find no pleasure in understanding but delight in airing their own opinions.”
Proverbs 18:7, “The mouths of fools are their undoing, and their lips are a snare to their very lives.”
(Proverbs really was the first self-help book.)
The point is, listening more and speaking less leads to understanding, empathy, common ground and personal connections.
These connections remind us that while our perspectives may differ, our underlying desires—for safety, happiness and respect—are universal.
This realization can turn adversaries into allies, fostering mutual respect even in disagreement.
Common ground also fuels progress. Many of history’s greatest achievements stemmed from unlikely collaborations.
In a time when our divisions are often amplified, finding common ground is an act of courage and hope. It requires humility, patience and a willingness to prioritize unity over polarization.
By seeking what unites us, we can transcend what divides us and create a future built on cooperation and shared purpose.
I’m in. Are you?
Austin Lewter is the owner and publisher of the Whitesboro News-Record. He can be reached at [email protected].